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Diana Athill 戴安娜·阿西爾/黛安娜·阿特希爾Dies at 101; 《暮色將盡》(Girl她說介紹) 等等 Wrote Cleareyed Memoirs of Love and SexSomewhere Towards the End Diana Athill (1917~2019) 2008 《暮色將盡》 四川人民出版社 11刷 Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones. 譯林 聖殿

 黛安娜·阿特希爾去世,享年 101 歲;寫下關於愛與性的清晰回憶錄

2010 年,作家戴安娜·阿特希爾在倫敦。

在接下來的半個世紀裡,她創作了八、九卷回憶錄(取決於如何計算),最後一卷《佛羅倫薩日記》出版於 2016 年,當時她 99 歲。


從她的第一本書《而不是一封信》(1962 年)到最後一本書,阿特希爾女士因其明亮的散文、敏銳的社會敏銳度和傳達深刻的地方感的能力而受到評論家的稱讚。

1979 年的阿特希爾女士。奈保爾、莫迪凱·里奇勒和約翰·厄普代克。阿西爾女士直到 40 多歲才開始寫作。


從整體來看,她的回憶錄構成了一部閃閃發光、發人深省、博學多聞的《慾望城市??? 不好的翻譯》——穿越到佔地數千英畝的英國鄉村莊園和牛津大學。

Diana Athill Dies at 101; Wrote Cleareyed Memoirs of Love and Sex

The author Diana Athill in London in 2010. She attained literary celebrity only in her 90s, with the publication of “Somewhere Towards the End,” the sixth — though by no means the last — volume of her autobiography.Credit...Andrew Testa for The New York Times

Over the next half-century, she produced eight or nine volumes of memoir (it depends on how one counts), the last of which, “A Florence Diary,” appeared in 2016, when she was 99.

From her first volume, “Instead of a Letter” (1962), to her last, Ms. Athill was praised by critics for her luminous prose, gimlet social acuity and ability to convey a profound sense of place.


Ms. Athill in 1979. As a book editor, she presided over a stable of authors that included Jean Rhys, V.S. Naipaul, Mordecai Richler and John Updike. Ms. Athill began writing only in her 40s.Credit...Hulton Archive, via Getty Images

Read collectively, her memoirs form a shimmering, meditative, highly erudite “Sex and the Single Girl,” by way of a thousand-acre English country estate and Oxford University.
The contrast between the unbridled subject matter of Ms. Athill’s memoirs and the very bridled background of their author became deliciously apparent the minute she opened her mouth. What emerged, as The Sunday Telegraph put it in 2011, was an English “so beautifully enunciated it makes the queen sound faintly common.”
當阿特希爾女士開口講述回憶錄時,回憶錄中肆無忌憚的主題和作者非常拘謹的背景之間的對比就變得十分明顯。正如《星期日電訊報》在 2011 年所報導的,最終的結果是,英語「發音?如此優美,甚至連女王的名字聽起來都顯得有些普通」。
enunciate
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Diana Athill

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Diana Athill
Born21 December 1917
KensingtonLondon, England
Died23 January 2019 (aged 101)
London, England
OccupationLiterary editor, author, publisher
NationalityBritish
Alma materLady Margaret HallUniversity of Oxford
GenreNovels and memoirs
Notable worksAfter a FuneralSomewhere Towards the End
Notable awardsOBEPEN/Ackerley PrizeCosta Book AwardNational Book Critics Circle Award
RelativesPhilip Athill (nephew)

Diana Athill OBE (21 December 1917 – 23 January 2019) was a British literary editor, novelist and memoirist who worked with some of the greatest writers of the 20th century at the London-based publishing company Andre Deutsch Ltd.[2]

Early life

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Diana Athill was born in Kensington, London, during a World War I Zeppelin bombing raid,[3] daughter of Major Lawrence Francis Imbert Athill (1888–1957) and Alice Katharine (1895–1990), whose father was the biographer William Carr (1862–1925). Diana had a brother, Andrew, and a sister, Patience.[3] Her maternal grandmother was the daughter of James Franck Bright (1832–1920), a Master of University CollegeOxford.[4] She was brought up at Ditchingham Hall in Norfolk, a country house owned by her mother's family.[5][6]

Athill graduated from Lady Margaret Hall, Oxford, in 1939[7] and worked for the BBC throughout the Second World War.[8]

Career

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After the war, Athill helped her friend André Deutsch establish the publishing house Allan Wingate, and five years later, in 1952, she was a founding director of the publishing company that was given his name.[9] She worked closely with many Deutsch authors, including Philip RothNorman MailerJohn UpdikeMordecai RichlerSimone de BeauvoirJean RhysGitta SerenyBrian MooreV. S. NaipaulMolly KeaneStevie SmithJack KerouacCharles Gidley WheelerMargaret Atwood, and David Gurr.[10][11]

Athill retired from Deutsch in 1993 at the age of 75, after more than 50 years in publishing.[3] She continued to influence the literary world through her revealing memoirs about her editorial career.

The first book of her own writing to appear was the short story collection An Unavoidable Delay (1962), and she published two further works of fiction: a novel entitled Don't Look at Me Like That (1967) and in 2011 another volume of stories, Midsummer Night in the Workhouse. She was best known, however, for her books of memoirs, the first of which was Instead of a Letter in 1963. These memoirs were not written in chronological order, Yesterday Morning (2002) being the account of her childhood. She also translated various works from French.

She appeared on Desert Island Discs in 2004 at the age of 86 and selected a recording of Haydn's The Creation as the most valued of the eight records and Thackeray's Vanity Fair as the book.[12]

In 2008, she won the Costa Book Award for her memoir Somewhere Towards The End, a book about old age.[13] For the same book, she also received the National Book Critics Circle Award in 2009.[14]

Athill was appointed an Officer of the Order of the British Empire (OBE) in the 2009 New Year Honours for services to literature.[15]

In June 2010, she was the subject of a BBC documentary, Growing Old Disgracefully, part of the Imagine series.[16] In 2013, she was listed as one of the 50 best-dressed over-50s by The Guardian.[17]

In 2011, Granta Books published Instead of a Book: Letters to a Friend, a collection of letters from Athill to the American poet Edward Field chronicling their intimate correspondence spanning more than 30 years (he kept all her letters, she kept none of his).[18][19] Granta Books published two further titles by her: Alive, Alive Oh!: And Other Things That Matter in 2015 and A Florence Diary in 2016.

Personal life

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According to journalist Mick Brown, "She attributes her flight from convention to her first love, Tony Irvine, an RAF pilot with whom she fell in love at the age of 15, and who was blessed, she says, 'with a very open approach to life.'"[20] The failure of her relationship with Irvine (referred to as Paul in Instead of a Letter),[11] her "great love", "blighted" many years: "My affairs after that, I kept them trivial if I possibly could. I was frightened of intensity, because I knew I was going to be hurt."[20] Irvine went to war in Egypt, and eventually stopped replying to Athill's letters, then two years later requested an end to their engagement.[3] At the age of 43, Athill suffered a miscarriage.[3]

She called herself a "sucker for oppressed foreigners", an inclination she characterized as a "funny kink" in her maternal instinct: "I never particularly wanted children, but it came out in liking lame ducks."[20] One lover, the Egyptian author Waguih Ghali, a depressive, committed suicide in her flat. Her most remarkable affair, about which she later wrote a book, was "a fleeting, and distinctly odd" relationship with Hakim Jamal, an American Black radical who asserted he was God and was a cousin of Malcolm X. Jamal's other lover, Gale Benson, was murdered by Trinidadian Black Power leader Michael X. Jamal was killed by others a year later.[20] Athill's account of these events was published in 1993 as Make Believe: A True Story.

Her longest relationship was with the Jamaican playwright Barry Reckord. The affair lasted eight years, but he shared her flat for forty. She described it as a "detached" sort of marriage.[20]

She moved into a flat in a north London residence for the "active elderly" at the end of 2009,[21] saying about this decision: "Almost at once on arrival at the home I knew that it was going to suit me. And sure enough, it does. A life free of worries in a snug little nest....".[22] Even during her old age, she reemphasized that she had no regrets about not having her own children, saying: "I dearly love certain young people of my acquaintance and am happy to have them in my life, but am I sorry that they are not my descendants? No...."[23]

Athill died at a hospice in London on 23 January 2019, aged 101, following a short illness.[24][25][26]

Her nephew and heir, the art historian Philip Athill,[27] is managing director of the dealership and gallery, Abbott and Holder.[28]

Selected bibliography

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Fiction

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Autobiography

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References

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  1. ^ "Diana Athill"Front Row. 26 April 2013. BBC Radio 4. Retrieved 18 January 2014.
  2. ^ Athill, Diana (5 January 2008), "'Getting things right': Recalling her life as one of the 20th century's most acclaimed editors, Diana Athill, who has just turned 90, was a pioneer of the confessional memoir. Her new book is about ageing". The Guardian.
  3. Jump up to:a b c d e Pattullo, Polly (24 January 2019), "Diana Athill obituary" in The Guardian. Retrieved 24 January 2019.
  4. ^ "Mr. William Carr". The Times. London. 29 January 1925. p. 7.
  5. ^ "Parks and Gardens UK". Archived from the original on 26 February 2012.
  6. ^ Preston, John (11 January 2011), "Diana Athill: Being the other woman was what I was best at"The Daily Telegraph. Retrieved 1 November 2016.
  7. ^ Prominent alumni, Lady Margaret Hall, Oxford, UK.
  8. ^ Cambridge Women's Peace Collective (1984). My Country is the Whole World: An Anthology of Women's Work on Peace and WarPandora Press. p. 140. ISBN 978-0-86358-004-8. Retrieved 24 May 2021Worked for the BBC during the Second World War and afterwards as a publisher.
  9. ^ Athill, Diana (3 August 2001), Chapter One, Stet. Excerpted in The Guardian.
  10. ^ "Stet: An Editor's Life (review)"Publishers Weekly, 1 March 2001.
  11. Jump up to:a b Cochrane, Kira (5 January 2009), "Not bad for 91"The Guardian.
  12. ^ "Diana Athill"Desert Island Discs. BBC. 2004. Retrieved 3 July 2010.
  13. ^ "Costa Winners 2006 – present" (PDF). costabookawards.com. Archived from the original (PDF) on 28 October 2012. Retrieved 3 January 2013.
  14. ^ "All Past National Book Critics Award Winners and Finalists"bookcritics.org. Archived from the original on 27 April 2019. Retrieved 3 January 2013.
  15. ^ "No. 58929"The London Gazette (Supplement). 31 December 2008. p. 9.
  16. ^ Athill, Diana (29 June 2010). "Diana Athill: 'Who is that woman who looks like me?'"The Telegraph.
  17. ^ Cartner-Morley, Jess (28 March 2013). "The 50 best-dressed over-50s – in pictures"The Guardian.
  18. ^ "Diana Athill introduces Instead of a Book: Letters to a Friend"YouTube, 3 November 2011.
  19. ^ Eichenberger, Bill (7 June 2012), "Diana Athill's 'Letters to a Friend' is one side of an interesting friendship"Cleveland.com.
  20. Jump up to:a b c d e Brown, Mick (23 September 2011), "Diana Athill on letters, lovers & letting go"The Telegraph. Retrieved 21 August 2012.
  21. ^ Wagner, Erica "Diana Athill"The Gentlewoman, Issue 14, Autumn & Winter 2016.
  22. ^ Athill, Diana (17 April 2009). "Diana Athill: Why I moved into an old people's home"The Guardian.
  23. ^ Athill, Diana (16 November 2012). "Diana Athill: why I never became a gran"The GuardianISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 28 March 2019.
  24. ^ "Writer Diana Athill dies aged 101". BBC News. 24 January 2019. Retrieved 28 March 2019.
  25. ^ Lea, Richard (24 January 2019). "Diana Athill, writer and editor, dies aged 101"The Guardian.
  26. ^ Fox, Margalit (24 January 2019). "Diana Athill Dies at 101; Wrote Cleareyed Memoirs of Love and Sex"The New York Times. Retrieved 24 January 2019.
  27. ^ Armitstead, Claire (15 December 2017). "Diana Athill: 'Enjoy yourself as much as you can without doing any damage to other people'"The Guardian. Retrieved 9 February 2019Her beloved nephew and heir, Phil Athill
  28. ^ "Gallery History". Abbott and Holder. Archived from the original on 9 February 2019. Retrieved 9 February 2019.
  29. ^ Stein, Sadie (22 July 2023). "Diana Athill's Only Novel, About Coming of Age in 1950s London"The New York TimesISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2 August 2024.
  30. ^ "A Review of Diana Athill's Stet: An Editor's Life"theeditingco.com. Retrieved 2 August 2024.
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Tain't No Sin (To Dance Around in Your Bones)
Words by Edgar Leslie, Music by Walter Donaldson
Verse: Dancing may do this and that, and help you take off lots of fat.
But I'm no friend of dancing when it's hot.
So if you are a dancing fool, who loves to dance but can't keep cool,
Bear in mind the idea that I've got.
Chorus: When it gets too hot for comfort, and you can't get ice cream cones,
Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones.
When the lazy syncopation of the music softly moans,
Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones.
The polar bears aren't green up in Greenland, they've got the right idea.
They think it's great to refrigerate while we all cremate down here.
Just be like those Bamboo Babies, in the South Sea tropic zones,
Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones.
Band takes two choruses
Verse 1: Dancing may do this and that, and help you take off excess fat.
But I'm no friend of dancing when it's hot. No I'm not.
So if you are a dancing fool, who loves to dance but can't keep cool,
Bear in mind this idea that I've got.
Chorus: When you're calling up your sweetie in those hot house telephones,
Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones.
When you're on a crowded dance floor, near those red hot saxophones,
Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones.
Just take a look at the girls while they're dancing. Notice the way that they're dressed.
They wear silken clothes without any hose and nobody knows the rest.
If a gal wears X-ray dresses, and shows everything she owns,
Tain't no sin to take off your skin…
Band phrase
Tain't no sin to take off your skin and dance around in your bones.



Girl她說
英國百歲女編輯生前留給世人的告誡,一語道破“男歡女愛”的真相!她說:“女人真正的困境,往往不在外面缺什麼,而在于心里太荒涼,太依賴別人的愛和認可。當你不再眼巴巴等著別人來愛你、認可你,把心思和力氣都放在自己身上,學會愛自己、讓自己變強大,這才是過好日子的真正開始!”

一針見血,醍醐灌頂!
這位女編輯就是戴安娜·阿西爾,一位89歲的老太太,對著全世界,毫無遮掩地寫下自己真實的欲望、數次戀情、情人、工作以及獨身的老年生活等等。
戴安娜.阿西爾是20世紀英國最杰出的編輯之一,曾挖掘《簡.愛》前傳、女性主義《海藻無邊》作者簡.里斯,以及諾貝爾文學獎得主奈保爾等文學大家。
在《暮色將盡》一書里,她短暫回憶自己人生的前半段,然后用濃重的筆墨漫談自己的老年生活。可以說,她為我們提供了一個體面而又令人羨慕的老年生活版本。
戴安娜·阿西爾讓我們清清楚楚地看到:女人這輩子,原來還可以這樣活!
“與浪漫愛情背道而馳,我心里懷著強烈的解脫之感,而且也已經習慣了不結婚,覺得婚姻困難重重,缺乏熱情,我寧愿期望不一樣的生活。”
你看,一個女人最好的出路,真不是非得找個好丈夫。
關鍵在于能跳出別人指指點點的框框,把自己修煉得又清醒又強大,這樣才有本事去擁抱生活的各種可能。
而戴安娜·阿西爾開頭這段話,更是引起無數女人共鳴。
女人最需要的是什麼?在戴安娜看來,女人最需要的就是為自己而活。
常常聽到結婚的人說,他不再愛我了,我想和他離婚,可這個男人仍纏著對方,對方也不知如何去回答。女人的心冷了,還會再回來嗎?愛情不是生活的唯一,更不是女人的附屬品。
在不少婚姻里,女人活得很累,很辛苦,女人一心為心愛的男人而活,即使男人的心里無她,她也會苦苦的等待,等待男人回心轉意的那一天,女人為男人而活,愿為自己心愛的男人付出自己的一切,即使這一切付之東流,也心甘情愿,女人為男人付出自己的愛,哪怕,愛沒有回報,她也覺得幸福。
女人一生離不開情,情比她的生命還看得重要,離開了情,她會擺脫不了情的束縛,女人離不開男人,總想有個肩膀依靠,依靠在這個肩膀上她心里覺得踏實,日子也過得自在。女人離開了男人,日子會過得索然無味,女人沒有了希望。如果愛不在,就要勇敢地放棄愛,放棄愛也是種美麗。
因此,戴安娜阿西爾才提出開頭這番話,也許曾經是婚姻的受害者,傷害能讓我們重新振作,我們會活得更好。
即使沒有了愛情,也不奢求愛情,因為愛情不是唯一。我們生活在這個世界上,生活對于每個人來說都是公平的,不要去埋怨生活,生活是多姿多彩的,即使愛己不在,我們還可以選擇其它的方式來讓自己充實起來。
以上就是戴安娜·阿西爾在《暮色將近》一書里告訴我們的智慧,細細品讀絕對受益匪淺。
退休后的戴安娜.阿西爾在89歲寫出獨身女性晚年樣本《暮色將盡》,她是一個女人活好自己的極佳榜樣,然而在本書中她還是謙遜地述說著被他人觸及靈魂并得到學習和心靈提升的經歷。
《暮色將盡》是戴安娜·阿西爾的代表作,獲得了科斯塔傳記獎、美國國家圖書評論獎等眾多獎項,是她臨近 90 歲高齡時寫下的一本老年生活隨筆,言辭坦率豁達,饒有趣味。
她由步入老年的種種變化說起,夾雜著對自己過去人生的回憶,她大方回憶自己的幾段情史,坦承自己對錯失母親身份的淡然,誠實面對老年的痛楚,但也仍滿懷熱情地談起在園藝、繪畫、讀書、寫作等過程中收獲到的新鮮體驗。
總體而言,阿西爾為我們展現了一個非常獨特的女性樣本,讓我們看到一個普通的知識女性,是如何在與世界的周旋中保存獨立的自我,并最終坦然面對衰老與人生終點。
通篇言語豁達、坦誠,作為生活、情感都經歷過大風浪的人,書中展現更多的,是她對過往人生的回憶,及當下老年的經歷體驗。
沒有過來人的說教、心靈雞湯或是步入晚年的悲觀與恐懼。相反,阿西爾阿西爾會告訴你,一切并沒那麼可怕,人生的方式可以有很多種,最重要的是,自己快樂!
也許,我們能從阿西爾自由自在的一生中,有所感悟:無論在哪個年齡段,都應該珍惜當下、追求自己的夢想、保持真實和坦然。
仔細想想,人世這一遭,無論是身居廟堂,或鄉間百姓,最后的歸宿都無非是一個善終罷了。所以,活在當下,不擰巴,就挺好。

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